Gwen’s First Photo Project

I was snapping photos the other day using a real life point and shoot camera (not my iPhone) and Gwen begged to take some photos. So I let her. This is Gwen’s first photo project and I must say, I like her eye! Titles as described by Gwen…Love this munchin.

Big Room

Big Room

Max's Rug

Max’s Rug


Silly Mommy

Baby Van

Baby Van





Time with Piggy


Panda Rug


Bedroom Rug

Bedroom Rug

Baby's Crib

Baby’s Crib



Van's Toy

Van’s Toy

Van is 9 Months

Van is 9 months old! He is adorbale and saying Momma and what we think is a varyation of Sarah that sounds like arah (his nanny/bestie). He is crawling like a pro, standing and all smiles. Two bottom teeth, a top side right tooth and his two top teeth are attempting to come in.

Van LOVES his big sister, his dog MAX and barfing. This kid can seriously throw up. Now I’m not being annoying or uncaring. The opposite my friend. We have had two ultrasounds, several tests and many many phone calls to the doctor. He just seems to like to randomly barf usually on me. But that is okay. As long as he is ok (which he is) that is what matter.

Gwen continues to amaze us and has an active imagination and vocabulary. She loves to garden (see sunflower photo below), be the leader of our family pack and go swimming. We love watching her grow and she is a great big sister. She shares with her toys well but really does not want Van in her business all the time. The next few years will be amazing with these two.

Should you be curious….Gwen is 3.5 years old and 27 pounds…Van is 9 months old and 21 pounds…he will catch her soon…

Van 9 Months Van 9 Months Van 9 Months Van & Max Van & Max Gwen June 2014 Cody and Van Gwen and her sunflower Van, Daddy & Gwen with her sunflower

Rock Star & Saying Momma

What a day we have had! Gwen revealed a fun little party trick her Dad taught her. Before signing a song on her little blue guitar (which is really a ukulele) she says “1, 1, 2, 3, 4” I feel like she has a little Bruce Springsteen in her and of course I love it. She sings most of the day and will round the corner to sing with her ukuele and it really could not be cuter. Cody said he taught her the saying weeks ago. One of his favorite pass times is teaching her funny sayings. She has caught the “Frozen” bug and loves watching the movie. I can’t complain as the broadway like tunes make me happy.

Little Van is thinning out and getting LONG! He is creepign super fast and into everything. We had to buy a baby gate/yard thing to help contain him from the step down areas we have in the new house. The all Spanish tile house is a little nerve racking with a creeping little man. He is saying “Dada” and starting using “Momma” when I come in the room or when he wakes up. It makes my heart melt each time.

We are getting ready for a Hawaii vacation for the wedding of our dear friends Jen and Andy. Can’t wait to catch some rays, waves and par-take in some good old U of A fun. Cody and I are meeting with contractors and finalizng our plans for our master bath/closet remodel which is super exciting. Photos of before and after to post soon! Enjoy Gwen’s video & a new photo of our little man Van


Gwen Playing Guitar from Jenna Rutschman on Vimeo.

Van 7 Months

Van 7 Months


Gwen is Three!!

I know everyone says this, but, wow where has the time gone. Our little panda turned three on March 9th. We celebrated with a super fun art themed birthday party. Gwen and her little buddies painted, ate snow cones and enjoyed homemade vanilla cake (that Aunt Shannon made). We had a great day with friends and family and love watching Gwen grown. My sister Shannon flew in from Vegas and we had a great time celebrating our little gals birthday. Having Aunt Shannon around that busy weekend truly saved the day!

Gwen is a pretty funny toddler. Getting a little “wild” at times to match her unruly yet amazing curly hair. Her vocabulary is amazing and she talks the majority of the time. If she isn’t talking she is singing and enjoys playing her guitar (ukelele), her drum and her mini piano. She has been asking to take a dance class lately and loves to dance around the hosue and “spin” like a ballerina. Her flair for the drama continues especially when she is playing pretend. Her pretend world is detailed and extravigant we go to the moon, the jungle, the beach, to school and of course to Shuga’s and Yaya’s house.

Gwen is a good little gal and great big sister. She pats Van on the head and touches him softly (most of the time) exclaiming what a “cute little guy” he is or calls him “buddy.”

Here are a few pics of friends, family and Gwen on her 3rd birthday.

Gwen is ThreeGwen, Van, Henry and Aunt Shannon

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Sip N See

It is funny people wanting to give you attention when you are hugely preggo and it is a million degrees outside, funny as in it doesn’t sound like fun. So when our friends Gneiss and Dave wanted to throw a little party in honor of our little dude, Van after he was born I was intrigued. They suggested the idea of a Sip N See after he was born rather than a baby shower and we jumped at the chance.

We traveled with the kiddos down to Tucson and had an amazing day. We felt so very loved and got to visit with friends and family the best way we know how, with great tunes, great sunny weather, a few cocktails, lots of catching up and showing off our Van. My friend and freshman year roommate Dani, her hubby Josh and their three kids (plus one on the way) made it to the party and it was great to see our kids together. How time changes from dorm life!

Cody and his highschool friends all came over and we got to see about nine little girls ages five and under run around and play. Van is a happy edition to his crew, the first boy!!!

We want to thank Dave, Gneiss and Ruby for hosting yet another wonderful party and making us feel over-the-moon loved. We love you guys and feel thankful to have such amazing friends.

Pics from the party:

CabanaLove Decor Drinks EggmansandRutschmans Food Spread Food Time Gneiss and Jenna Gneiss and Van Gwen and Addy Playing House Shuga and Van Smore Time Van sleepign during the party


2013 – The Year of Becoming Adults

The holidays always bring on emotion of thanks and reflection. As Cody and I remember 2013 something rang true in our minds. 2013 was the year we became a legit adults. Which probably means I should stop using the word legit. But, that isn’t the topic. We started the year with focus. Pregnant with our second child we decided to sell our beloved 35ht Street house. Where we had spent so much time remodeling with our hands, having late (late) night parties, having our first dinner parties, bringing our first dog home, becoming a legit couple, getting engaged thusly married and bringing our first baby home. As we moved into our new house on Mercer Lane it was hot. I mean super hot and I was very pregnant. We embarked on DIY projects the moment we moved in. I started a new job (very pregnant) and the year flew by us.

Gwen kept us laughing the entire year. She is sassy and sweet with wild curly hair and bright blue eyes. We all prepared for the arrival of our little man, Van. He is a sweet baby and has been a delight in our family. Max has continued to have a few ups and down with his health but our old pup all in all is doing great. He still hates tile surface so our completely tiled spanish floor throughout the house has been tricky.

What has made me feel most like an adult wasn’t getting a new job while preggo, or having our second child or even moving to a quite part of town so we could “get more square footage” it was the holiday hosting. We hosted Thanksgiving (with Cody’s family staying several nights with us), Christmas Eve when my sister Shannon stayed several nights with us, a holiday potluck and a few small gatherings here and there. The entire time I felt more confident as a host knowing what to cook that we could get done easily but would still be delish, what wines to buy that taste great but won’t break the bank and how to plan the nights/days for prepping. It was crazy. We pulled off the holiday season without a hitch all while having two kids, a house guest and a barking dog.

We spent NYE home with the kids, cooked crab legs & a rib eye and chilled. Rather than hosting friends we spent the evening chatting with each other and laughing about our cute growing family and our crazy year. Thank you to everyone in our lives for all the help, love and support you gave us. We truly had a busy but fantastic and rewarding year. It gave us a few more lines on our faces and gray hairs but we loved every minute. Well…moving on the hottest weekend of the year in AZ kinda sucked but we survived.

Some Fun Facts of 2013:

Gwen asked Santa for a ChooChoo Train and a Pirate Ship. She also got a push bike and a circus tent (amongst many many more toys).

Van was born several days past his due date and weighed a whopping 8 pounds 15 onzes

Van loves to rub his head with his hands before he falls asleep and is an aspiring thumb sucker like his sister.

Gwen insists on us singing twinkle twinkle little star every night…many times. Usually making Cody.

Cody has painted almost every room in our new house.

Jenna took her sewing skills to a new level making Gwen’s Toodee costume.

We went to less concerts this year than we have any other year since we met. But, we did go see Yo Gabba Gabba LIVE. Biz Markie was there so that helped.

Gwen LOVES wearing her fake glasses. It is hilarious.

Gwen’s Funny Quotes of the Year:

“Carebears don’t wear socks”

“Momma, I’m the teacher. You are not listening. I tell Daddy, you go in time out.” Response when Momma sang out of turn.

After Gwen tooted and says “I hear my butt!”

Mom: “Gwen you are amazing.” Gwen: “Yes I am amazing.”

“What a mess! Clean this up Daddy.” After Cody dumped a bin of diapers over.

“Isn’t he cute?!?” While looking at her brother Van.

Happy New Year, everyone!! Cheers, Jenna, Cody, Van & Gwen

Gwen & Van Christmas Morning

Gwen & Van Christmas Morning

Gwen and Cody at the park skateboarding lessons.

Gwen and Cody at the park skateboarding lessons.

Van sleeping on his favorite pillow

Van sleeping on his favorite pillow

Van & Momma at Yaya and Poppi's house
Van & Momma at Yaya and Poppi’s house

Gwen playing on the swing set at Uncle Joe & Aunt Lindsay's on Christmas Day.

Gwen playing on the swing set at Uncle Joe & Aunt Lindsay’s on Christmas Day.

No Big Deal….Say it with me. No One Is Perfect

I’ve been reading a lot about the “hate” for the supermom and how no one can live up to this unrealistic supermom image. We can’t do it all. There is always a give and take. That is life. But shouldn’t we stop judging everyone so harshly and stop comparing ourselves to the uber rich and famous?

Here is the deal. No one. Nope no one is perfect. You can compare yourself to Gwyneth Paltrow in a Vogue magazine shoot all day long. But I don’t really think Vogue wants the average American woman to compare herself to styled, exercised, professional actress, who has been in hundreds of photo shoots (a la) Gwyneth Paltrow. Nor should we, she is an uber rich, actress from a Hollywood family who has countless cooks, nannies, trainers, rock star husbands and is friends with Jay-Z and Beyonce…Now no offense but I’m guess the average Mom or any Mom I know is even close to this. I can tell you that I’m none of those things. So rather than hate, I’m going to enjoy her spread in Vogue magazine as what it is…fashion, glamour and entertainment.

But I think we really need to do is stop judging each other so much. If you have perfect hair and your kid appears to be perfect great. If you have messy frizzy hair and your kid does too, great. What I always say to Gwen when something goes wrong. No big deal. I mean it repeat it it helps…NO BIG DEAL. As parents I personally think we are too hard on ourselves and everyone around us for their own decisions.

All Mom’s and Dad’s are working parents. It is called parenthood. Some parents also work outside the home and to do so they have help. Help from grandparents, day care facilities, schools, friends and families. It is ok because I bet the parents who don’t work outside of the home have a little help too.

I recently learned I’m not the best cook. It is too bad because I really like cooking. I can make a mean spaghetti sauce and have a few go to dishes, as my husband pointed out I’ve also made those dish probably hundreds of times. It is when I get a whim and try to cook something random that the bottom falls out. Ohh and I always burn something. Usually the bread at dinner parties. It is a guarantee. Cooking takes practice as does everything. For me in particular I would rather do crafts like sewing than watch TV or practice cooking an elaborate meal. That is just me. Crafting is soothing for me and I have fond memories of crafting with my Mom growing up. It has nothing to do with Martha Stewart. Who, by the way, has a large team of professional crafters doing her crafting and keeping her empire up and running.

Social media hinders a lot of us. We want to post the best picture and the funny quote that will make everyone think we are interesting, our kids are clean and our lives are perfect. I don’t want perfect. Nor do I want people to think I am perfect. Gwen’s hair will be messy, as will mine – it is the fate of curly hair. I will likely forget to put makeup on for work about once a week. I forget to call friend’s back. And I would rather write a blog post than a private diary entry. I will sew halloween costumes not to bug anyone but because I like to do that. I also don’t really watch TV. Which is just me. Cody loves TV so it works out great in our house. He get’s to watch U of A sports (which I also enjoy), soccer, cooking shows and outdoor survival shows that he loves. I would rather play on Pinterest or do a craft. That is just me.

Speaking of Cody, I’m also lucky. I know not all husbands are as supportive (and tidy) as he is. Cody likes to be busy. He enjoys a good house project and likes to cook. He also expects to be 50/50 when it comes to parenting. Thankfully because he is really good at it. He also will fold laundry as he watches soccer on TV. Not because he is perfect but because it was clean laundry that needed to be folded. We are a team. We survive because we are a team.

Anyway, I’m on a rant. It is the holidays. We are all stressed and overtired. But perhaps we should embrace the holiday spirit and stop judging everyone around us. Maybe the mom with perfect hair isn’t trying to bother you. Maybe she just has nice hair. And the Mom who throws a good party, it might be because she and her partner worked hard to host their friends and family to say thank you for all they do for them. Not to be perfect or piss anyone off.